Was telling Mark about my recent emotional discovery about changes and he told me this:

As a friend, we can choose to tell our friend, especially one who is dearly close to us that we notice a change in them, but we have no right to be judgemental and decide whether the change is good or not good. It is up to this friend to decide for himself whether the change is good or not.

Well...not that i feel any better about my friend changing but what Mark said is very very true. I shall always bear that in mind. I guess everyone of us is changing everyday...even myself. By being so emotional about it does not help the relationship, it will only push friends apart eventually. However, whether it is good or bad, I will have to trust that the true bond will never change and if I remain supportive and true to the friendship, true bond shall never break.

haiz...that's what ohana is all about right....no one gets left behind or forgotten.

Maddy Maddy....be sure to remember that all the time.

Sorry Kai Hon.